Ah, yes. That wonderful time of year where parents scurry out and spend money on an outfit that gets one once (most of the time), pails and if you live in a neighbor hood that gets trick or treaters then you also have to invest in enough candy as to avoid eggings or other such vandalism.
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE Halloween.
I do. I would love to decorate my house with cobwebs, bats, skeletons, spiders with dry ice and fog machines. I have fond memories of bus rides after school going though neighborhoods seeking out the coolest houses. Our bus driver would even take a small detour down Henry street so we could see the yard decked out with a life sized Freddy Kruger and bodies hanging from their tree.
I dressed up every year until I was 17 and if given the chance to attend a Halloween costume party, I would race out to the costume shop and thoroughly enjoy choosing something to wear.
But as a parent, it feels a little more stressful. Especially when money is tight and you are looking to save some cash up for Christmas.
What is a Mom to do?
Well, if I were the sewing type I would probably simultaneously stress out and enjoy making costumes myself. But I am not, so I can't. All I can do is stress out about how I wish I knew how to sew or knew someone who could do it for me.
So that leaves costumes from past years and hand me downs or buying new from the stores.
I have used hand me downs for the smaller kids-they don't really understand the whole costume decision process anyways and will generally accept the costume if you are sure to emphasize the fact that with it comes a bucket full of candy.
I have also managed to get away with minimal purchases to make a costume work. One year my 2 year old son went as a cowboy. Easy enough. Brown shoes, had 'em. Jeans, Check. Leather vest, thank you Grandma for the authentic leather gift from AZ. Plain shirt to go underneath, of course and a fake pistol, which as a mother of 3 boys I had. All I had to do was spend about $5 on a hat, bandana and badge set.
AS my kids have gotten older though I have noticed a lot more independence about this decision. My two oldest boys want to be characters from Star Wars (this is due to the fact that they recently got a Wii game as a gift) Lucky for me I might have convinced one of them to use a Jango Fett costume we had been given....but my oldest still wants to be Darth Vader and I doubt I will get out of that one.
My oldest daughter is into princesses and I am sure you can guess which one she wants to be this year: Elsa.
Of course that costume is pretty easy to find but it has been my experience that the quality is lacking, especially for the price.
Do I need to learn to tell my kids "No." when they ask to be something? I mean, of course if they asked to be something I am not okay with (say my 6 year old wanting to be a zombie) I have not trouble with that. But what if spending $60 or more on costumes is not in the budget right now? What do you do then?
I want my kids to dress up and enjoy themselves but at the same time I know that it adds up when you have 5 kids. Luckily I have the 2 youngest covered and maybe even a third...but what happens when that ends? What happens when all 5 of my kids want something new and different?
Maybe I should look into sewing lessons. I just may need them. Its a skill I really wish I had taken the time to learn from my Late Grandmother.
What do other families in similar situations do this time of year? Cough up the cash or is there a more frugal way to dress your kids up for the holiday?
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